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Flirting tips for both men and women

How to flirt without really flirting

Most people are not comfortable to speak to strangers and that is why it is not appreciated if you just start a conversation with almost anyone.  That is why in airports, on planes and trains, and in other public places it is hard to indulge in small talk for most of us.  But if you take the right approach, you can successfully meet new people, even make friends, and the best of all, flirt.  The beauty of a lot of these encounters is that you can go a bit farther simply because you know that you probably will not meet with the same person again.  

Techniques for women to make the first move

Smile.  It works since it is a great ice-breaker and makes you look approachable.

Glance at him or even keep a fixed gaze on him.

If you are close to him, brush up against him.  Men treat it as a positive sign of acceptance.  If you are in a group, show special interest in him, ask questions, and try to move him away from the group.

Lick your lips during eye contact.

Parade close to him with exaggerated hip movement so that he will notice you and will know that you are interested.

Ask for his help with something (remember, how girls would drop their books in college when they wanted the guy to come to help and break the ice).

Do not play hard to get.

Techniques for men to make the first move

Lots of good eye contact, lots of smiles, compliments, and nice gestures.

Try to move physically closer but be careful.  You do not want to be overly aggressive but you do want to show your interest in physical intimacy.

Show interest in her.  Ask a lot of questions about her and maintain eye contact all the time.  Follow-up questions help.

Keep talking about you to a minimum level.  Just throw in a point here and there just to make sure that she does not think that you have nothing to talk about.